Marriage Coaching for Highly Sensitive People (HSP)
The frustration and disconnection you’re feeling in your relationship just isn't sustainable, is it?
Even though deep down you love your partner and want to stay in this relationship, you're so DONE not being able to get through to your partner about what's important to you, or hearing him tell you he can’t seem to say anything without feeling like he has to walk on eggshells. . .
You're tired of the worry about your future together, the arguments, tension, and endless hours of energy drained by feeling down about your relationships – when you just know there COULD be more ease, more supportiveness, security, love, and connection between you. . . because after all, you are both good people.
You’re DONE trying the same old things that just are not working, that feel like re-hashing the same old patterns over and over again with no real progress.
I feel you, friend. I have been there, too.
I call this DISENCHANTMENT.
And it can happen easily for us as HSPs in our marriages.
"I'm feeling so good in my relationship, words cannot describe! I'm just filled with so much gratitude and love. I cannot thank Hannah enough for the profound impact her coaching has had on my life."
~past client
"I laugh all the time these days with my partner. I couldn't have imagined it before, but now
every day is
joy-filled."
~past client
Want to learn more about the 3 Phases to Lasting Love?
Check out this podcast episode.
Disenchantment is no fun at all. Especially as a sensitive person, since it impacts you even deeper than average. So I know you're ready to finally put an end to it, and feel great again together.
And I’d love to help.​
Welcome to
Treasured Program
Marriage Coaching for HSP
Imagine things getting 1% better every single DAY for months. Soon enough you’ll feel twice as connected, twice as much a team in life together, twice as light-hearted, twice as loved and in love. What I call "re-enchanted."​
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And once you have that? You’ll know how to keep growing the love and connection and mutual support in your marriage, until one day you look up and realize you FEEL your significant other loving you more deeply and genuinely than ever— like you are a true treasure to them–with all your sensitive humanness . . .
Hi, I'm Hannah–for sure an HSP in all ways! And I've done this (the work taught in Treasured) over several years in my own marriage. Not only do my husband and I now just totally treasure and love each other, we also have a blast together (even with a lot on our plates every day, like raising 3 boys, and running our own businesses).
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And you feel a deep sense of treasuring your partner, too–that you just totally enjoy being around him again, like you want to hold his hand and kiss again like you used to.
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What a relief it is to feel confident you have the skills to keep this increasing security, ease, connection, this growing lightness and joy between you (even if your hubby is in busy-mode for a few weeks, gets grumpy, or you have a conflict…), and to get right back there if ever you start veering off...​​
I've also helped hundreds of other highly sensitive women do the same in their intimate partnerships.​
And you know what they have ALL been most surprised about?​
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It only takes one of you in the relationship to completely turn your marriage around (that can be YOU my sensitive friend!) —when you are focusing on the right things. ​​​​​​
At first these sensitive women who did this work with me before you doubted they had the power to so completely transform the quality of their marriage – because they had been focusing on the wrong things! (Like trying to get their partner to be less moody, show his care and affection a lot more, talk to them more calmly and regularly about his feelings, etc)
Like you, they were pretty frustrated – because no matter how hard they tried, he just wasn't doing better at these things and it felt harder and harder to connect with him over time. I bet you feel that, too, yeah?
So it felt a bit like magic to them when they saw that
the ticket to the sea-change they each so badly wanted in their marriages was bringing their focus back to lovingly tending to their own big sensitive heart, emotions, and minds – with the help of a few simple skills…
SUDDENLY THE CARE, SUPPORT, AND LOVE THEY WANTED FROM THEIR SPOUSES HAPPENED NATURALLY AND 2- 5 TIMES MORE FREQUENTLY!
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Your power, too, to double (then double again) the love and connection you want between you and your spouse is HERE. In YOU. With just 3 simple skills that you have 100% control over, because they are all about you.
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1. Love and believe in the being you are (sensitivity and all)
2. Know how to move through and out of negative emotions (that hurt love if stuck in them)
3. Know how to move into emotions that foster love and connection that keeps increasing
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It’s that SIMPLE. Get good at these 3 things, and from there everything good begins flowing: the the actions you need to take to be well in yourself and to connect with your partner effectively and deeply, the conditions for your partner to treat you in the best, most loving ways possible, the communication that works to build sustained and deepening intimacy, the ability to problem solve so your relationship can shift into a culture of safety, love, and joyful intimacy more and more over time — ALL come from developing your capacity to do these 3 things!
And you are in the right place to do all this, my sensitive friend!
In Treasured, we take it step-by-basic step, building these essential skills one simple shift at a time –with laughter, big ahas, the occasional happy tear, and a flood of support and encouragement. ​
WHAT CLIENTS ARE SAYING:
"I can't get over how beautiful our relationship is now after these months with Hannah. It's almost surreal. It's almost like we are totally different people now. Neither of us imagined we'd ever be in this place. Our relationship is so strong and so deep now. We've come to a place where we truly GET each other. We even lovingly deal with conflict. It’s incredible.
Sam, Past Client, Canada
I’ve created new levels of intimacy with my husband that we have never experienced before. I feel stronger in my abilities to not only communicate and interact with him but also to support myself. Both the financial and time investments are well worth it, and if I had to go back in time, I would definitely make the same choice and do Treasured again!
~G. Past Client
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We’ve been through many years and forms of marriage counseling that all seemed to leave us frustrated and unimproved. Finally, a program that gets to the core of our relationship problems
(which of course are the issues we both bring to the relationship). Initially it’s working on your own self that WILL gently and lovingly lead your partner to see the changing relationship dynamics. Amazingly they’re WILLING to make the necessary changes in themselves. This program has not only helped us get our loving relationship back but it has helped us both recognize and resolve some individual problems we each brought to the marriage. I can’t say enough about the unique approach to relationships that Hannah takes in the Treasured program. It works!!!! “
Kathy, Client
I got so much more out of working with you for months than I did out of years of therapy! Things now are really, really good with my partner, better than ever. We have been showing each other so much love and tenderness, and things just feel so much easier and lighter.
I’m not as likely to get in a funky mood as before because I tend to my emotions better as they arise...I’m much more confident in myself, less prone to jealousy and have more self-love, a lot less self-judgement. I’m not as anxious about things overall.
All this and more translates to my relationship! He says the sweetest things about being so grateful to be with me and how we can even turn a bad moment around.
Lauren, Past Client
"When we first started there's no way I'd have believed I'd get to this point. It just blows my mind it's so good!”
Donna, Past Client, AU
Your 4 Months in Treasured Includes MORE than All The Support You Need To Re-Enchant Your Marriage with Love And Connection Again:
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Lifetime Access to The Treasured Learning Site, containing the 4 Pillars of an Amazing Marriage. Learn and embody what really leads to loving intimacy through deep teachings (broken down into easily digestible pieces) to help you master the 3 primary emotional skills, as well as sensitive communication skills and other practical strategies, to transform your marriage from the inside out. This Learning site is so thoroughly packed with essential support for you and your marriage, it's worth the cost of the program on its own.
A Welcome and Mission Alignment Group Call
So we can set on the best foot possible, get to know each other, and start feeling comfortable together!
Your Set The Stage Kick-Start Module A whole module of videos, handouts, and exercises to get you prepared to make the very most of this program and set the stage for the most powerful shifts to happen. This way, you'll get super clear about what you are working towards and get fully committed to the incredible journey you are about to take, so you can be so successful in making the changes you want in your marriage.
12 Group Coaching Video Calls With Hannah (virtual, so location is not an issue), where Hannah will coach you and others 1:1 to dissolve blocks, create healthy relational habits, peace-promoting perspectives, and engaged action so you can have the most fulfilling relationship imaginable. We will target and clear up the issues unique to you and your relationship,​ and learn from each other’s challenges and successes as well. During this time you will get into your bones what works for incredible love and connection, and watch it come alive between you and your spouse.
Recordings Of Our Sessions so you can listen to them again later for deeper insight and understanding for years to come. It's easy to forget insights you have had on our call, because we cover so much. This really helps spark your memory and anchor those insights in, for the best progress possible.
Private Virtual Community Space
A deeply supportive and celebratory community to share break-throughs, challenges, and get coaching from Hannah and the group.
Graphic Illustrations and Workbooks
For easy reference and key reminders to make what you are learning easy, accessible, and right at your finger tips.
A Hybrid of group AND 1:1 Private coaching options!
You can add 1:1 coaching wth Hannah during these 4 months for the deepest most targeted support and transformation. See details and options below.
Surprise Bonuses, depending on what comes up in our time together (such as 1:1 Emotion Sessions), Hannah's GOT you!
A Treasure Trove Of Downloadable Guided Audios And Meditations that you can come back to over and over to create lasting transformation and powerful neural-re-programming in your mind and body, so you can be your best most loving and lovable self. This is where much of the deep healing and transformation happens. The audios are richly supportive and they fill out the package so that you are doing the work on all levels of your being, for the quickest and most thorough relationship transformation.
Master Classes and Skills Labs on key topics
You will have the chance to join classes and skills labs on essential relationship and emotional skills (topics determined by needs of the group). Learn, practice, master-and enjoy the positive impact on your marriage and life.
And of course, you'll have Hannah's signature love-drenched, gentle-but-direct, believe-in-you-fiercely support all along the way!
PLUS YOU'LL GET THIS BONUS AS SOON AS YOU ENROLL, SO YOU CAN GET STARTED RIGHT AWAY
(Value: $300)
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The 8-Week Better Marriage Jumpstart,
Start off our time together by diving into applying, via a specially sequenced process, the most important things to do to start seeing positive change and more loving connection in your relationship right away. When you implement these, within 8 weeks you'll be amazed at how much better things feel with your partner.
Treasured is for you if you are a sensitive big-hearted woman who's ready to put an end to the old patterns and dynamics that aren’t working in your marriage, and to step into your power to make your marriage the true treasure you always dreamed a marriage could be..l
AND YOU WON'T BE ALONE IN DOING IT!
YOU’LL BE DEEPLY SUPPORTED BY HANNAH AND AN INTIMATE GROUP OF
THE MOST SENSITIVE BIG-HEARTED WOMEN AROUND. . .
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. . . all wanting and struggling with the same sorts of things, and all doing the same work side by side towards the same goals. . .
No more feeling all alone or like something's wrong with you because of your sensitivity again. With us, you belong!
Together we will be stepping into love leadership, lifting each other up, keeping each other accountable and motivated, and revolutionizing our marriages forever.
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Because this is a hybrid program, you also have the option to get deep targeted support by adding private 1:1 coaching sessions with Hannah. See more info below.
TOGETHER, BONE-DEEP TRANSFORMATION IS INEVITABLE.
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ALL OF THIS WILL BE DELIVERED IN THE PROVEN BEST-OF-BOTH-WORLDS FORMAT:
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A HYBRID OF GROUP AND 1:1 COACHING.
In my years of coaching both 1:1 and groups, I've learned that BOTH have big , but different, advantages. Group teaches you what you'd never learn on your own and inspires, motivates, and supports you in ways you'd never experience on your own. And private 1:1 coaching allows a depth of focus on you and the time to dive very thoroughly into you and the specifics of your situation, for the deepest change possible.
In Treasured you get to choose how deep and quickly you want to go and the format that's best for you.
Curious about (or intimidated by) the group experience? Wonder about doing just group versus adding 1:1? Get answers RIGHT from 3 past Treasured participants! Listen in below to hear them share what the group experience was like for them and the difference between group and 1:1 sessions
Here are your TREASURED package options:
OPTION 1
The Full Group
Program
on it's own
(Total Value $6500)
one time payment
$2200
OR
Installment Option: 1 initial
payment of $800,
then 3 monthly payments
of $490
OPTION 2
The Full Group Program
PLUS
6 Private 1:1 coaching calls with Hannah
(Total Value $8500)
one time payment
$3900
OR
Installment Option: 1 initial payment of $2000,
then 3 monthly payments of $660
OPTION 3
Purely Private 1:1 coaching with Hannah, (for 6 months,20 calls, no group portion)
one time payment
$6000
OR
Installment Option: 1 initial payment of $3000,
then 5 monthly payments of $620
Note: this option is only available occasionally. Fill out this form if you want to be considered.
ENROLLMENT IS CLOSED
WORK WITH ME PRIVATELY INSTEAD. CLICK BELOW
To join, please set aside 10 minutes to fill out the mutual great fit form. Hannah will get back to you within 48 hours with next steps to enroll, including confirming your choice of packages.
All the good stuff is just flowing between me and my man thanks to coaching with Hannah. It's such a lovely feeling to be empowered to be a love leader in your relationship. It feels right emotionally and spiritually.When we women step into this we have such successful relationships. Because what we get in return is absolute devotion. What men really want is to love and adore us!
L.H., past Client
We're having more positive lighter interactions, more enjoyable conversation even laughter! I'm feeling down much less and we're having much less conflict.
Past Client
In Past Client's Words:
I'm in the best days of my life thanks to coaching with Hannah.
M.G. Past Client
Since I started working with Hannah my relationship has become more solid than it has ever been. My partner wrote me the most loving card on Valentine's Day which was BIG for him! It never would have happened before doing this program. The great changes are showing in so many ways. Not just my relationship with my partner. In my health, in my relationship with my sister and my mom…
T, Past Client, FL, USA
I am now feeling so content within myself, so peaceful, so strong. For the first time I feel whole and that feeling has informed every area of my life. Everything I need is within and I feel safe and protected –by my own self. My partner and I are doing better than ever and I feel 100% confident in our relationship and that we can get through anything together. This coaching has truly helped me change my life– truly.
S.L., Past client
"I couldn't imagine this version of myself that I have grown into by working with Hannah. She has guided me to envision who I want to be, and how to return to this deeply safe, heart centered and wisely loving self when the normal winds of life and love blow me a little off-course. I am so grateful for her guidance."
Past Client
IN LESS THAN 4 MONTHS, YOU CAN BE
SAYING THE SAME THINGS!
BecauseTreasured isn't more of what you've already tried. And that's why it will change everything.
Most programs and relationship advice focus only on strategies–which will only get you so far and often require your partner to be super motivated to work on his side of things, which let's be real, isn't happening so much right now...
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Whereas in the Treasured process
we focus on BOTH:
The most essential down-to-earth strategies that YOU can do – even without your spouse’s pro-active participation – that are proven to revitalize and maintain lasting love.
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AND the deeper foundational internal emotional work that makes it easy and natural to know just what to do and say to deepen the loving connection you want with your partner as a highly sensitive person.
The best part? You'll do all of this without becoming "less" sensitive, being more stoic, being a “better” person.
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The truth is, as a sensitive woman, you were born for having the best marriage possible. That's part of the innate gifts of being a highly sensitive woman.
It just takes learning some specific skills to turn your attention back towards yourself in order to really capitalize on this gift.
Yes, it's all a bit of a different approach, I know– but it’s also revolutionary.
That's why it actually works to create that revolution of love
you want in your marriage.
WHEN YOU COMMIT TO GROWING THE CONNECTION BETWEEN YOU JUST 1% A DAY, AND YOU SHOW UP AND DO THE WORK. . .
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. . .you're planting the seeds of a completely new version of your relationship to sprout, to grow deep roots, to unfurl – and as you keep it up – to blossom into all you've wanted it to be . . .
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And you’re giving your significant other the chance to find his way back to you and the harmony HE also wants to with you.
. . .you’re giving your relationship with THIS partner the chance it deserves–you deserve– to be the very best it can be.
By the end of our time together, without a doubt, YOU will feel so much better emotionally–5x more peaceful, at ease, secure, more empowered, and just great about yourself.
And painful patterns in your marriage WILL have shifted.
As you stick with the process, one day soon you’ll wake up and realize that you haven’t had a divisive argument or had your feelings hurt in months–
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​and most likely, instead, the general mood between you will be lightheartedness, easy smiles and laughter.
Your communication with each other will feel so much easier and more open, so resolving little or long-standing issues, and coming out the other side feeling close and affectionate will be just how you roll.
. . and the daily challenges of living? They’ll be faced supportively together, and the to-do’s done with ease and collaboration.
And if after all you've done, you find your spouse still isn't able to fully meet you as the partner you want in life, you’ll be free to part ways with peace and zero guilt and everything you need to build an amazing partnership with a new great human.
Do what is in YOUR power to do. . .
. . .so you can guarantee the love you want, the relationship you’ve dreamed of, will be yours no matter what in this lifetime
. . .And so you can be genuinely excited for your whole future!
Because your marriage simply can’t stay the same when you change how you relate to your own emotions and sensitivity–and therefore your partner.
It starts with joining TREASURED, and engaging the process until you feel twice as connected, twice as loving, twice as treasured. And then doubling that all again. And again.
The revolution you want in your marriage awaits.
Join TREASURED and begin now.
ENROLLMENT IS CLOSED
JOIN ME FOR 1:1 COACHING INSTEAD. CLICK BELOW
To join, please set aside 10 minutes to fill out the Mutual Great Fit Form by clicking the join button above. Hannah will get back to you within 48 hours with the final steps to enroll.
“Before coaching with Hannah I thought I was losing my whole life because my husband was telling me he didn’t want to be with me anymore. I was very afraid of the future.
As I dove into the program, Hannah helped me see my part in the bad relationship dynamics I had with my husband: my tendency to try and control him and his behavior, my reactivity with him, how I would complain if I did not like how things were. And that pushed him away over time.
In coaching with Hannah, I learned how to take responsibility for how I feel and how to work with my emotions so that I can handle and direct them all instead of trying to direct my husband!
I can now respond calmly instead of reacting and saying things that make things worse. And we actually come up with solutions together for problems that arise.
One day he kissed me for the first time in a year. . .and not just a little kiss – but with warm fiery sparks! I felt so good and hopeful. Then we began snuggling often, and really reviving our relationship on all levels.
Because I am now able to be more loving and compassionate, he is feeling more supported by me and is telling me he wants to make this work, and is showing it through his actions.
I now see a positive future together again! I would not have developed the relationship skills I now have without Hannah’s guidance. I am grateful from the bottom of my heart for this program.”
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K.B. Germany
Past Clients Stories
“Coaching with Hannah helped me find the love and acceptance I had been searching for my entire life. “
Past Client, USA
Things are going really well are my partner and I -- to the next level. We're under contract on a new home and we're talking about engagement rings!
Past Client, NH, USA
I used to always end up feeling unimportant to my husband. With Hannah’s help, I now share my feelings and communicate authentically in a loving way. I’m taking care of myself, asking for what I need, and it's inspired him to look at and take action on his own issues.
I'm now able to get across to him (in a very loving, kind way), what's important to me. AND he's surprised me with his responses that are open, humble and loving.
I now trust that he loves me, and know he wants to make it work. I’m very happy with my ‘new’ husband and love the man he is. We are laughing, loving and having FUN!!
This program is very powerful and extremely helpful to me personally and in my relationships. I highly recommend Hannah to anyone who wants to grow in LOVE."
Mara, NC, USA
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Before we started, I was struggling with feeling insecure and jealous in my relationship, and insecure in myself. I was worried that maybe we weren't meant to be together, that it would always be this way, that we'd never find a way out of struggling with conflict or deal with difficult conversations. I was feeling time pressure to make a "decision."
But after working with Hannah, I’m feeling really secure and confident, calm, steady, accepted, loving, warm-- a glowy gratitude. AND so much better about myself, In general. It's led to us reuniting in such a great way, feeling so connected and secure. And I’m not feeling needy or threatened and have less worry about the future. Things I would have gotten upset about I'm not anymore! It’s a completely different mindset!
Because of me doing this work, we're both more confident in ourselves and each other's ability to communicate honestly and openly. We've had so much growth and many important conversations lately, and we're feeling so grateful to have each other. He now asks me “How can I support you?”.
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I feel so much love, support, and deep interest from him. I’ve always wanted to be able to say about a man “I feel like he’s my safe space! “ Now I can.
Lauren, Past client
Coaching with Hannah has made an enormous difference in my life. I feel so much love and I am so loved!
Past Client, USA
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IF YOU STILL HAVE QUESTIONS, CHECK OUT THE FAQ PAGE HERE!
Still not sure if this is for you?
Treasured is NOT for you if:
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you are more invested in venting or wishing you could wave a magic wand to change your husband than making changes where you ACTUALLY have control: In yourself.
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you don't want to honor and work with your sensitive system to make everything in your life better.
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Your significant other is physically abusive, deeply invested in substance abuse, or a serial cheater. (Please find support with a therapist).
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You are unable to carve out a couple of hours a week to do the work it takes to create an intimate loving relationship
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You hope that reading and listening and learning things passively will be enough to change your relationship dynamics. (You will need to be actively engaged and apply your learnings in real life)
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It IS for you if:
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You know your emotional wellbeing and a loving relationship are key to your deep happiness and fulfillment in life, and you're ready to invest in that with your energy, time and money.
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You want to know how to be able to skillfully and gracefully handle those big emotions as an HSP--so you can always feel your very best, no matter what life brings.
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You are willing to carve out a couple hours a week to spend on this work outside of our calls together.
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You're willing to take a deep look at how you can shift and harness your own power to create a whole new beautiful dynamic between you and your partner .
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You're willing to temporarily step a bit out of your comfort zone and get a little vulnerable with other HSP's in the group--and in return reap the incredible lasting reward of feeling so supported and understood-- and of deep connected loving in your marriage.
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You're committed to creating the changes to make your long-held dream of a deeply loving relationship a reality, and ready to be patient with yourself as you learn for the next 4 months and beyond!
